Wedding Confusions

I'm waiting on HDB to approve my AHG after which I'll have to go through the nikah (solemnisation). The confusion is coz the sanding (wedding reception) is on 1/12/13. That's almost 9 months apart. The plan is to nikah on 17/3/13, settle whatever homey things and then run off on 19/3/13 for a 4-5 day honeymoon to Bali / Thailand, insyaAllah.

I've started with preparations of course (From the looks of it, you know it doesn't cost $50.)

Nikah:

Marriage Prep course (To go in Dec)

Food (Confirm in Feb)

Room Decor

Hall Decor

Baju (Order in Jan)

Veil (Order after baju)

Shoes (Order after baju)

Ring (Buy pre x-mas/new year)

Dulangs

Photography (abg ayen)

Videography

Bunga Rampai (buy container)

Berkat?

Sanding:

Food (Morning of & Event)

Decor

Music

Baju

Shoes

Photography

Videography

Sireh dara

bunga telur

Berkat (Adult & children)

Other related things:

Bed

Family outfit